Maureen Hudson, 70 of North Reading died at home ending her battle with cancer. She is deeply missed by her husband of 52 years, John, her children Peter Hudson (Becky Plourde), Kimberley Howe (Derek), and Corinne Crossley (Andrew), as well as her grandchildren, Emma, Sarah, Julia and Parker Hudson, Annika Howe, and Cricket and Rhett Crossley.
Born in Dorchester, Massachusetts to George and Miriam Murphy, she spent her early years as an eager student, dutiful older sister to Sharon, and stealing away for an occasional special trip into the city with Nana. Most special were their holiday trips to see the Enchanted Village and eating blueberry muffins at Jordan Marsh.
In her junior year of high school, she met her life-long partner, John at a Civil Air Patrol meeting. Just days after graduating from high school, they married and spent only a short time together before he was shipped out to serve in Vietnam. Maureen spent the first year of her marriage living with John’s family who had recently lost their own mother to a sudden illness. Ever the care-taker, Maureen’s early attempts at learning to cook for her new family members earned her the nickname ‘Blowtorch Sal,’ (due to her penchant for overcooking food). This time left her deeply bonded with her brothers-in-law David and Bill, as well her sister-in-law, Peg and father-in-law, John Sr.
Upon John’s return and their settling into their life together, Maureen became a mother with the birth of Peter. Over the course of the next nine years their daughters Kimberley and Corinne were born. In a role that she embodied, Maureen loved her children deeply and was a constant supportive presence in their lives participating in PTA meetings, acting as a coordinator of the Arts Workshop program, in addition to cheering them on at baseball games, crying at every dance recital and valiantly (if unsuccessfully) attempting to program the family VCR on their behalf. Ever full-hearted, she was known to offer care beyond her family, be it welcoming guests to the holiday table, playing secret Santa to a struggling family, or packing an extra school lunch for kids that didn’t have one.
Maureen made many friends in her thirty-year career in purchasing for Middlesex Community College where she worked until nearly the last weeks of her life. She was known to help people out, even when their paperwork was filed wrong or late, and always had a glowing story to share about her children or grandchildren.
She delighted in her children finding loving marriages. Side-stepping the trope of the horrible mother-in-law, her loss is felt deeply by all. Within each of these partnerships was the arrival of grandchildren, thrilling Maureen. Known as Meme or Mame, depending on which one you ask, Emma, Sarah, Julia, Annika, Cricket, Parker, and Rhett brought laughter and joy to every visit, craft project, or chat she spent with them. They showered her with gifts of any ladybug-related item they could find (a favorite of hers) so that vibrant red with black polka dots spread over her home, office, and even her car.
Once an empty nester, Maureen added to her second act by pursuing her degree with a focus on art history. She reveled in learning the cultural context of art and expanding her point-of-view beyond her life experience. Her ready laugh and loving presence are deeply missed.
Due to COVID, a small, private ceremony will be held at Croswell Funeral Home. A springtime, celebration of life is planned for a later date. Donations can be made to the Aradhya-Beauchemin Arts Scholarship at Middlesex Community College, or the Cancer Center at Mass General Hospital, scholarship for adult students or the MFA. Those who wish to honor her memory are also invited to bake, craft, wear a sparkly pin or beautiful scarf, curl up with a good mystery novel, enjoy a spuckie with a tonic, fall asleep to an old movie, or tell someone you care about how much you love them — often. To leave a message of condolence, please visit www.croswellfuneralhome.com