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Edith F. “Edie” Graham

Edith F. “Edie” (Muller) Graham – 93, of North Reading and formerly of Dorchester, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 1, 2022 at Care One of Wilmington. Born in Boston, MA on January 10, 1929. She was the daughter of the late Leo J. and Rose E. (Saluto) Muller.

Edie spent her childhood growing up in Dorchester, MA. She was a child of the great depression, but her parents Rose and Leo Muller did their best to provide a comfortable home and instilled a strong sense of family in her throughout her younger years. Aunts, uncles and cousins lived in nearby neighborhoods while she was growing up and were a part of her everyday life. When family members came into difficult times, they often came to stay with Edie’s family. Her parents were hard working people and Edie inherited their diligence for working hard and doing the job right. Edie passed these principles on to her four daughters letting them know that with hard work and education you could achieve anything you wanted in life and become an independent person.

Edie attended Boston Public neighborhood schools and graduated from Girls High School in Boston in 1946. She then attended Burdett College School of Business and Shorthand. She found work at a local company called Boston Gas as an audit clerk where she met her future husband Henry (Hap) Graham.

Edie lived on Willard Road in North Reading for the last 67 years, but her connection to the town began when she was a young girl. She spent many summer days with family at her maternal grandfather’s summer camp on Willard Road with her parents, brother Fred and sister Jean escaping the heat of the city in Boston. Her grandfather, Thomas Saluto owned the land, built the camp and spent summers there gardening and tending to the fruit trees and lilac bushes on the property. Edie’s parents built a small four room house on a section of the land and gifted it to Edie and Hap once they married in 1953. Hap and Edie moved from Mill Street in Dorchester into 5 Willard Road in 1954 when their first daughter was 6 months old. This became and still is the family home. As the family grew, so did the original four room house with several additions. When Edie’s sister Jean got married, Jean and husband Joe Gigante moved into a small home next door to Edie and Hap’s where the original summer camp was located. This is where the next generation of the family began their lifetime with aunts, uncles and cousins sharing many memories. Edie was involved in her girl’s lives growing up. Many summer days she and her sister Jean would pack up the picnic baskets and load the car up with chairs and blankets and head to Crane Beach in Ipswich, Ma. They would hit the road by 8 AM and hope that the green head flies were not biting on those days. She was a Girl Scout Leader, volunteered many hours at St. Theresa’s annual fairs and at the elementary schools her kids attended. She eventually got a job as a teacher aid at the E. Ethel Little School when her youngest daughter started school. Once her children where older, she went back to her original line of work doing bookkeeping at Interstate Electric Services in Burlington, MA. In her free time away from work Edie was still family oriented.

Every Sunday after going to church there were family dinners. On summer holiday weekends Edie and her sister Jean would throw big backyard cookouts with aunts, uncles and cousins from the Boston areas attending, making for fun times, good eating and many happy memories. Edie loved to sew and made many dresses for herself and 4 daughters throughout their childhood lives. For fun Edie and Hap would go to the dances on Saturday nights at the Knights of Columbus Hall with their friends.

When Edie retired, she went to work in the Town Hall with Town Clerk Barbara Stats doing senior hours to earn credit on her property taxes. She also worked the Town elections counting votes into the wee hours of the morning. As Edie aged and her girls moved out on their own, she continued to live those values of hard work and being independent. She enjoyed reading, working outside tending to her flower beds and the yard, always taking pride in maintaining her home. Edie’s five grandchildren loved her dearly and always knew that she would be present to witness their life milestones and celebrations with appreciation and support.

Family members include her loving daughters, Jeanne M. McHale and her husband John of South Yarmouth, Cheryl A. Condon and her late husband Michael of Methuen, Mary F. Graham and her husband John Delapa of Westwood and Paula R. Graham-Dwyer and her husband Chris of North Reading; her sister Jean M. Gigante of North Reading and 5 grandchildren, Gregory, Christopher, James, Emily and Agnes. She was the sister of the late Frederick L. Muller. She was also survived by several cousins, nieces and nephews.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend her Funeral Mass that will be Celebrated on Saturday, December 10 at Noon at St. Theresa’s Church, 63 Winter Street, North Reading. Visitation and burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to MSA Coalition for research to find a cure at (www.multiplesystematrophy.org) in honor of her son-in-law John Delapa.

Greta J. Barresi

Greta J. Barresi – 91, formerly of North Reading, died on Friday, November 18, in Andover, Massachusetts. She was the only child of Martin R. Anderson (born Oscar Martin Rasmusson), an immigrant from Sweden, and Elizabeth (“Bess”) O’Brien, an immigrant from Newfoundland. Soon after Greta’s birth in Arlington, Massachusetts, in 1931, probably in the home of a midwife, her mother was admitted to a sanatorium for tuberculosis patients, a disease that was both common and fatal at the time, where she died three years later. Soon after her mother’s admission to the sanatorium, Greta and her father were taken in as boarders by Hilda Kristina (Hylander) Andresen, an immigrant from Sweden, and her husband Sonik (“Sam”) Peter Andresen, a Danish immigrant from an island that had been conquered by imperial Germany, with whom they lived for the next 13 years in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and then Belmont, Massachusetts, until Greta’s father remarried. Hilda and Sam, who had no children of their own, loved Greta unconditionally and became like second parents to her. She remained close to them for the rest of their lives. In 1944, Greta moved out of the Andresens’ home with her father and new stepmother to Arlington, Massachusetts. Greta graduated from Arlington High School in 1948.

In an era when few women attended college, Greta paid her way through Salem State Teacher’s College (now Salem State University), where she studied Business Education. She spent two of those years as a boarding student, first in a private home and then in the Salem Home for Young Women, because there were no dorms on campus at the time. It was at Salem State that she met her future husband, Arthur A. Barresi, a World War II veteran from Lynn, Massachusetts. They married soon after graduating in 1952 and took teaching jobs at the high school in Pepperell, Massachusetts, where two of their three children were born. Greta and Arthur moved to North Reading in 1955 when Arthur was offered a job teaching business subjects in what would be the new high school. He soon became its first Assistant Principal, a post that he held until his retirement in 1987. They settled in a Cape Cod–style house on Nutter Road in what had been an apple orchard before the war, where Arthur would live for almost 45 years Greta would live for more than 63. The salary of a public school teacher only went so far for a family of four in those days, so for a time they had no telephone in their home. When Greta and Arthur moved to town, the crews building Route 93 still were making their way toward North Reading from Boston; E. Ethel Little still lived in her two houses at the corner of Park and Main Streets (a small house with central heating in the winter and a big house without central heating in the summer); and the future North Reading High School still was an empty field across the street from the little clapboard building that housed Ryer’s store (then called Molly’s).  Soon Greta was teaching in the evening school at Lynn Burdett College in Lynn, Massachusetts, which she did for several years, interrupted only by the birth of a third child in 1962. After this child started first grade, Greta worked again as a substitute teacher in the North Reading public schools for $15 a day. At about that time, she also signed up for an intensive training course offered by North Reading for tutors who were willing to work with learning-disabled children. After completing the course, Greta worked for many years with children with mild to moderate special needs, first at the Maria J. Murphy Elementary School and then at the L. D. Batchelder Elementary School. She retired in 1988.

Over the years, Greta enrolled in many adult education courses and had many hobbies as a result, including upholstery, oil painting, cake decorating, rosemaling, and the ins-and-outs of travel arranging (at a time when it was not possible to arrange trips online). She also volunteered for the Channel 2 Auction at least once. She was a charter member of Messiah Lutheran Church in Lynnfield, Massachusetts, where she was active in youth education and charitable activities for decades. She was an avid gardener—growing both flowers and vegetables—and enjoyed cooking too, especially when it came to preparing “gourmet specials” of dishes from all over the world. She also liked reading and for a time met periodically in a book club of women who lived nearby. Later in life, she was a founding member of the North Reading Recycling Committee, attended town meetings, and was active in the North Reading Senior Center. From her father she inherited a zest for travel—with her family, with her husband, and in later years sometimes by herself or with a friend. By her 80th birthday, Greta had visited all seven continents. In the late 1990s, while serving as caregiver to her husband, who was battling Parkinson’s disease, Greta started to write her memoirs and later joined a writing group in Lynnfield, Massachusetts, to which she presented draft chapters. Later, with the help of one of her sons, she began to edit them, a project on which she continued to work until a week before her death. She also helped her husband to start writing his memoirs, and, after his passing in 2000, continued to work on them in his stead, including by compiling extensive reminiscences about her husband’s life that she solicited from family, friends, and others. She also endowed a scholarship for North Reading High School students in his name.

Greta is survived by a daughter and son-in-law, Elizabeth C. Robinson and Alvin A. Robinson III of Tewksbury, Massachusetts; a son and daughter-in-law, David P. Barresi and Julia (Johnson) Barresi of Traverse City, Michigan; another son, Paul A. Barresi, and Richard S. Carbonneau of Merrimac, Massachusetts; a granddaughter and grandson-in-law, Miranda C. (Robinson) Allen and Jason Allen of Methuen, Massachusetts; another granddaughter, Marielle C. Robinson, and Scott Butova of Wilson, Wyoming; two grandsons, Joshua D. Barresi and Nicholas A. Barresi of Traverse City, Michigan; and several granddogs and greatgranddogs, whose company she always enjoyed (but could have done without the dog kisses).

Her funeral will be held on Friday, December 2, at 10:00 AM at the Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow Street, North Reading. Visitation will be held on Thursday, December 1 from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. Interment will be in Riverside Cemetery in North Reading. www.croswellfuneralhome.com

In lieu of sending flowers, donations may be made to the Arthur A. Barresi Memorial Scholarship for North Reading High School students. Please make the checks payable to the “Town of North Reading” and be sure to note the “Arthur A. Barresi Memorial Scholarship” on the check’s memo line. The checks should be mailed to Treasurer, North Reading Town Hall, 235 North Street, No. Reading, MA, 01864.

Frederick R. Bishop

Frederick R. Bishop, Jr. – 81, of North Reading and formerly of Melrose, died Saturday, November 19, at the Lahey Hospital and Medical Center in Burlington.

Born in Everett. MA on November 28, 1940, he was the son of the late Frederick R., Sr. and Mildred (Murray) Bishop. He was a graduate of Chelsea High School.

Fred worked for many years as a Supervisor for the Xenon Corporation in Wilmington. He was a member of the National Guard. He was an avid outdoorsman, he loved hunting and fishing. He has been a resident of North Reading for the past 49 years.

Family members include his loving wife Nancy (Moorehead) Bishop; his son, Frederick R. Bishop, III; his daughters, Diana Hartmann and Julie LeBlanc and three grandchildren.

Visitation will be held on Friday, November 25 from 4 to 7 PM at the Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow Street, North Reading, followed by a prayer service at 7 PM. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made in his memory to https://www.massoutdoorheritage.org/     www.croswellfuneralhome.com

Sally L. Beaver

 

Sally L. Beaver, 83, of North Reading, formerly of Malden and Melrose, MA, sadly passed away on Thursday, November 17th, 2022, at her home with her loving family by her side.

Born in Malden, MA on January 28, 1939, Sally was the loving daughter of Edward and Frances B. (Rea) Beaver who predeceased her. She attended Malden High School and graduated in 1957. Sally worked at the Malden Co-Operative Bank for 38 years, where she started as a teller continuing on to become the branch supervisor, branch manager, assistant treasurer and then assistant vice-president.

She was a very kind and wonderful person as shown by her early retirement to be the caregiver of her parents for twelve years. She was also a resident of North Reading for over 30 years. Sally was a profound figure in the community where she belonged to the Chamber of Commerce, was Treasurer of Zonta International Club of Malden, and director of the Malden YMCA and YWCA. Sally longed to help others. She was a volunteer at Malden Hospital and a board member at Project Triangle. Since 2002, Sally worked part time as a receptionist at Moynihan Lumber in North Reading.

Sally was an infectious woman who could light up any room she walked into. Her smile was full and her laugh contagious. Sally always made people feel their best and knew the right thing to say during difficult times. Sallys niece Kaileigh was the love of her life. They did everything together. They were two peas in a pod. Sally had a true love for animals, especially her cat Ralphie and her dogs, Flash and Riesling. Often referring to little Riesling as “Wayo” (kid in Italian). She loved going on numerous cruises and she was an avid bowler. Sally was one of the sweetest and kindest people always putting others before herself. She will be sadly missed by all.

Ms. Beaver is survived by her sister Kathleen Mulligan and husband, Kenneth of Methuen. She was predeceased by her brothers Edward and Joseph Beaver. Sally also leaves behind many nieces and nephews; Sean Mulligan and his wife, Rosie of Methuen, Carney Mulligan and his wife, Danni of Malden, Kaileigh Mulligan of Methuen, Joseph Beaver Jr. and his wife, Donna of Abbington, John Beaver and his wife, Sharyn of Wakefield, Lori Karl and her husband, Curt of Saugus. Sally is also survived by many great nieces and nephews, Jordan, Ian, Conner, Amanda, Melanie, Joseph, Matthew, Robert and wife Alisha O’Leary.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours on Saturday, December 3, 2022 from 9 to 11 AM at Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow Street, North Reading. A short prayer will follow at Riverside Cemetery, North Reading. A luncheon full of memories and laughs will follow at the Chateau Restaurant, 131 River Road, Andover, Mass. 01810.  www.croswellfuneralhome.com

 

 

Peter Clark Jackson

Peter Clark Jackson – 63, of North Reading and formerly of New Jersey, passed away on Thursday, November 17, 2022 surrounded by his family.

Born in Washington, D.C. on December 11, 1958. Peter was a graduate of Mountain Lakes High School in New Jersey, he attended the University of Delaware and graduated from Northeastern University. He later received his MBA from Suffolk University.

Family members include his loving wife of 34 years Susan (Bond) Jackson, their children Amanda, Daniel, Nicole, and their beloved dog Cora; his mother Joan (Clark) Jackson and late father Peter Monroe Jackson; his sister Fola Betourney and partner Clayton; his brother Mitchell Jackson and wife Molly; many nieces and nephews; and an extended in-law family.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date to be announced. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in his memory to the charity of one’s choice.  The family would like those who are able to donate blood.  Arrangements are by the Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow Street, North Reading. www.croswellfuneralhome.com